Aligning with the Highest Version of Yourself to Get Pregnant
- Alexis Fooks

- Jul 9
- 3 min read
What would the highest version of yourself do?
What decisions does she make?
What’s important to her?
What does she value?
I’ve learned a thing or two along the way during my 5-year fertility journey.
And the most powerful advice I ever received came from within.
It came from my highest timeline—where I was already the version of me I longed to be, holding the baby I deeply desired.
“Be a mother now.”
That’s what came through when I was at my lowest point.
Stuck. Lost. Defeated.
The chance of ever becoming a mother felt so far away, almost impossible.
But what did “be a mother now” actually give me?
It lit the pathway back into my body.
It inspired me to wonder:
Who was the version of me that had the baby? The family?
I was working so hard, trying to do everything perfectly.
I followed every protocol. Did all the things I was “supposed” to do.
And yet, all I had to show for it was severe emotional and physical exhaustion.
I was burnt out—wondering how much longer I could keep going, feeling so depleted and out of touch with myself.
Then I was given a beautiful wake-up call:I had been missing a huge key that could help pave the way forward—
Me.
Yes, all the things I was doing could help me get pregnant.
But the lens through which I was making decisions was clouded with fear and desperation.
(Basically: “I’ll sell my soul if it means this baby will come.”)
And that energy led me down paths that weren’t truly meant for me.
Maybe they were the right choices for someone else.
But as you know, fertility is not one-size-fits-all.
I was drowning in endless protocols and support systems that only left me feeling more anxious, more burned out, and—if I’m being honest—pretty f*cking scared.
But “be a mother now” gave me a new lens.
It gave me a new way forward—
One that restored my energy,
Rebuilt my hope,
And helped me feel confident even in the unknown.
It brought ease and patience into the waiting.
It gave me the ability to know what decisions, paths, protocols, and support systems were uniquely right for me.
I was now a better version of myself—
Acting from the highest version of me.
The true essence of me had been reclaimed and reignited.
I had clarity around my next steps.
I began making decisions with confidence and self-trust.
I felt momentum building—an energy that carried me forward.
It felt powerful.
It felt right.
It felt uniquely mine.
My invitation to you:
Start wondering.
Start exploring.
Who is the version of you that has the family you dream of?
Once you begin to connect with her, you can sit in the essence of that energy.
And through that lens, you’ll begin making decisions that are aligned and uniquely right for your fertility journey.
You’ll feel more confident in your choices.
You’ll stop second-guessing whether you’re on the wrong path.
You’ll leave behind the burnout and the defeat.
And you’ll move forward with clarity, trust, and power.
I understand how precious your energy and time are.
The information, guidance, and wisdom you carry within you are invaluable.
Please don’t discount your power.
The time is now.
Start directing your efforts toward what’s truly right for you—
So you can welcome your baby with confidence, joy, and a beautiful sense of ease.
✨ Here’s my free guide with the exact steps I took to align with my spirit babies' frequency and conceive both of my children—through two uniquely different paths. ✨
Are you ready to align with newfound energy, hope, and clarity—and call in your baby from this version of you?


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